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Dear Melissa,

I think the best way to appear elegant yet stylish is to go for one of two options. Either an all black out fit with bright accessories and heels or a dress with high heels.

The all black outfit is easy to pull off, however here are a couple of gorgeous looks for you to play with in terms of dresses with heels.

http://www.asos.com/Option 1
http://www.asos.com/Option 2

Have a fab time at your Uncles party and do jump on the Clotheshorse and let us know what outfit you decided to go with.

Love
Bronny
xxxx

PS. Don't forget Google images is always a great place to look at various styles, just do a search for the item of clothing you want to look at!